Jude is 12 + Update

Cassidy • April 5, 2024

Happy birthday to Jude!


Jude is the man. Quite literally. Our first born officially no longer qualifies for children’s fares on airlines or anywhere else such discounts are offered. He is certainly growing—now a towering 1,486mm (that’s 4 feet 10.5 inches for those not in the metric world).


Jude does everything at full speed. He reacts quick to situations (too quick at times). And his reactions are big, be it big joy or big disappointment. He reads at blinding speeds and seems to finish a book a day. His consumption of food has started to rival his dad’s. He loves spice and lots of it — he’ll add buffalo or sriracha sauce to just about anything. He loves salt, butter, tacos, dessert, and dreaming about American fast food.


Jude is a lover of people and adventure. He is quick to make friends with anyone his age, and usually leads the charge in whatever shenanigans they set their mind to. He notices when people are happy or hurting and intuitively knows how to sympathize. He has embraced life next the ocean with all the exploring, fishing, and snorkeling it has to offer.


Jude is also growing in wisdom. He reads the Bible every morning and thinks deeply about eternal things. It has been so exciting to see the Lord growing Jude in his faith and repentance — especially as Jude faces the challenges of living overseas with a greater understanding of the costs.


We love this buddy!

For his birthday we had the Twomblys and two other boys over for playing outside and lentil tacos and nutella-stuffed cookie bars.

He was only a little upset that Annie "helped" him blow out his candles.

Some favorite gifts.

Boys this age are so much fun!


I'll post his birthday interview here (keep reading below for an update):

House building trip 10 went well. It was the longest one (in recent history for us), but Zach, Bryan, and Brett (visiting house-building extraordinaire from Texas) were able to get plumbing finished, the whole kitchen put together, and most of the walls up!


Bryan took on the undesirable job of turning this pile of deconstructed ikea stuff...:

...into cabinets, shelves, and drawers.

Brett plumbed a sink and a sink and a sink and a sink and a washing machine and then also finished the gutters.

Zach put up many many sheets of plywood for walls, then ran out, then did one wall with our old flooring.

When the guys returned, we celebrated Easter and then said goodbye to Brett:

Easter baskets:

Lunch with the Twomblys:

Also, lots of ocean time:

What's next for us: April is travel as a family to the highlands and the capital. We have appointments with eye doctors, dental hygienists, medical doctors, and nurse practitioners. Then we have four days of rest in the capital city. In early May the Twomblys are traveling as a family for a break and then later in May will be the next (Zach's final!) house building trip. June will be me and other womenfolk heading in to clean and organize and unpack.

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